What is love? Is love eternal? If love is infinite, why there are so many married couples divorce? Why there are so many dating couples break up? If love does not last long, then what is the meaning of confessing “I Love You”?
What is the priority for dating partner? One of my friends told me that she will give priority to her family first, her friends second and her boyfriend third. I agree with her but how many boyfriends/girlfriends in this world are willing to be put third, especially after friends. Isn’t boyfriend/girlfriend should understand us more? Putting them in third place doesn’t mean that they are less important. Just that the importance should be placed in heart, and not is words.
What if you had been rejected after you confess yourself? Should you still wait for the person to change his/her mind and accept you or you should find other targets? If you were to wait for him/her, don’t you think that you are wasting your time? Rejection means rejection. Can time change rejection to acceptance? But if you were to find another target, don’t you think that you are not confessing to your true love.
How many true loves can a person have? If a person can have more than one true loves, don’t you think that the “true loves” might not be the “real true love”. But if a person can only has one true love, does it mean that the person has to live with artificial loves for the rest of his/her life if his/her true love rejects him/her?
*Philosophy of Love should be included in the syllabus for Pengantar Falsafah (kursus Wajib Fakulti Sains Sosial dan Kemanusiaan), UKM. Hehe...
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ReplyDeleteThis is amasing, love is everything to me!
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what is love besides an inner emotion that is dieing to come out to show someone but we all end up showing love for the wrong person because they tell us i love u but as a teen do u really know what love is
ReplyDeleteLOVE.....LOVE....LOVE........!!!!!!
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ReplyDeletesome say love is blind, but i think that love sees more than the eye can perceive. most people confuse passion for love. passion is born and dies quickly, but love grows with time and for reasons that are not always apparent. to understand love one must first understand sacrifice. because one can not exist without the other.
ReplyDeleteLove is a chemical secretion much like adrenaline or basic hormones. Also, much like adrenaline or basic hormones, it needs to be influenced to secrete. The concept of "true" love does not exist. All love is true when it is reacted through the proper processes of the brain. The only difference between what you say is "true" and what is not "true" is how we interpret the chemical balance. Sometimes it is love, sometimes it is something else posing as love (hormones, desire, etc.)
ReplyDeleteAs far as your boyfriend/girlfriend being 3rd in priority, sure; I hope you're ready for a lifetime of loneliness. Okay, they may begin at 3rd, but your bf/gf needs to become your best friend (making them #2) and if you are going to marry them, then they become family (making them #1). Keep them at 3 and you will never last...
This is true, i think you can have more than one love. As stated above, Love is a chemical reaction with in the brain- chemical reactions happen thousands of times with in the brain. I think that you learn love and you learn to love someone. And sometimes the chemical balance changes, and people change. but i think that everyone is in the same boat. so LOVE really shouldn't be as bigger problem as it is for the world- I believe that you need to firstly love yourself before you are able to define your own true love.
ReplyDeletewhen you love somebody don't let people tell you that you are not right for each other if you truly love him or her they will soon learn to except your one and only love....... see from my point of view. i had this problem with my love but i loved him no matter what people said because he is my one and only just remember life is short you only have one life to live live it to your fullest love to your fullest and this is coming from one to another lover
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ReplyDeleteThese are so beautful y cant everyone just be with one person the one they realy love and i am a teen and i beleave u never know what love is unless you have a true love someone u can trust someone who can hold u and call u baby someone who calls u beautiful not sext or hot some one who really means it when they sai I LOVE YOU<3
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